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Dark Contracts: Breaking the Nex of Narcissistic and Psychopathic Control
By Deirdre Rolfe
Some bonds aren’t relationships. They’re psychological contracts—unspoken, coercive, and invisible to the outside world.
Dark Contracts is Part One of a complete therapeutic system designed to illuminate, deconstruct, and ultimately heal the invisible damage caused by narcissistic, psychopathic, and coercively controlling relationships. Written by psychotherapist Deirdre Rolfe, this book introduces the concept of the Nex, a parasitic psychological tether formed through gaslighting, trauma bonding, emotional deprivation, and the systematic dismantling of a survivor’s truth. These contracts are not chosen; they are conditioned. And this book shows you exactly how.
Blending clinical frameworks, attachment science, psycholinguistics, and trauma-informed neurobiology, Dark Contracts provides a foundation of understanding for survivors and clinicians alike. It decodes the behaviors of Dark Triad personalities, explains the mechanisms of psychological entrapment, and offers a path back to sovereignty through truth, language, and embodied awareness.
This book is the education and foundation of a larger healing model:
- Part Two, The TR6 Model (forthcoming), maps the progressive emotional shadows and survival states trauma survivors often get stuck in—such as rumination, re-injury, and rage—and offers a structured therapeutic framework to process and climb out of them.
- Part Three, TraumaCode, is a 96-card healing deck with guidebook and online training program designed for both personal use and practitioner integration. It offers a daily reflective and ritual-based practice that deepens healing through metaphor, somatic awareness, and narrative repair.
Together, these three works form a complete therapeutic system—for survivors ready to heal, for professionals ready to support them, and for anyone seeking to name, unbind, and transform their trauma into power.
I was a child of extreme and consistent Trauma.
As a result of my upbringing I always wondered why some people survive the most henious traumas and yet others didn't.
Why people who bear witness to the horrors look the other way, say and do nothing.
It has been my quest of over thirty years to answer these questions and share my philosophies, tools, and unique system toward reconciliation and resilency for those seeking wellness.
These are the tools I have created and tested on 1000s of clients over my thirty year career.
These are the tools that saved my own life.
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